
'Finding Your Normal' involves 'Finding Your Peace!'
Normal-How Do You Find ‘Your’ Normal?
Normal-what is it? I’d like to share a story, where a young woman attempts to answer this question for herself. Please enjoy the story and leave your thoughts in the comment section.
Clutter Interferes With Normal
Maggie bought and had installed new flooring for the bathroom, kitchen and her bedroom just before leaving on vacation. She also hired a handy man to do some needed repairs. The house looked nice after the changes, and looked more normal to her. ”What does it take to feel normal on the inside?” she wondered.
Since retiring, there wasn’t any reason for Maggie to stay in one place, and she was beginning to feel trapped by owning a home. Since going through a recent barrage of stressing issues, a spirit of restlessness seemed to infiltrate everything. ”It’s time to change what is ‘normal’ for me. Life is becoming stagnant,” she thought.
Maggie thought about the furniture, books, jewelry and novelty items that needed to go back into the bedroom. The computer room is now in chaos temporarily storing all of this stuff. There’s only a small trail leading through the computer room to the bedroom. Clutter invaded even her mind, making it difficult to think clearly.
Peace-The Foundation For Normal
While on vacation, Maggie thought that moving closer to the beach would be a great change. Walking along the beach, with the waves plummeting the shore, a sense of peace entered her very being. Every step seemed to say, “This is where I want to live.”
How does one get back to normal, after returning from such a great vacation? Maggie even recorded the sound of the waves breaking against the shore. She wanted to remind herself just how much she enjoyed walking on the beach, listening to the seagulls, feeling the warmth of the sun and the salty air.
Even though Maggie was happy returning to her pets and her own bed, and it was time to begin making some changes in her life. These changes would be good for her, yet, she knew from experience, that any change is uncomfortable at first. Maggie knew in order to accomplish her goals, disciplining her time was important. She knew that life is too short to feel trapped by anything or anyone, and it is important living every single day to the fullest.
One day Maggie’s friend, Ashley, was staying a couple of days, and Maggie had told Ashley to use her car to run some of her errands. Ashley popped her head in Maggie’s room early in the morning to say she was about to leave. Maggie rolled over and said, “I’m not ready to get up yet.”
Her ever-supportive ally said, “Be at peace, my friend!”
Wow! “Be at Peace!” Maggie repeated this phrase several times out loud and in her head. She realized peace is what will help life return to normal. Peace is to normal what music is to the violin or what a sweet fragrance is to the flower. With that thought, Maggie drifted off to sleep at peace knowing that a normal life contains love, joy and peace.
Hoping all my readers will, “Be at peace! and find ‘your’ normal by finding ‘your peace!
Please check out this post about peace from a fellow blogger. Also, you might enjoy a post I wrote about maintaining peace and balance in one’s life.
Till next time, may Light make your path clear, may Wisdom be your guide and may Love lead you in this journey called “Life”.


















